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Wishes for my son

Inspiration, Parents

My 18-year old son left for college this fall. He’s attending the University of Iowa, the only college he wanted to go to, the only college he applied to, and luckily, the college he was accepted to. Unlike many high school seniors, the choice was an easy one for Sam — his dad, grandfather, and two uncles were Hawkeyes. Sam’s easy-going, middle child thought process was this: why mess with tradition? It worked for them, it’ll work for me.

Among my many worries about Sam’s departure are the facts that he’s never done a load of laundry, has a knack for losing things, and has no idea what he wants to do in life. But among my comforts — he has an inner yearning to learn about subjects that interest him. And there have been many over the years: coins, constellations, basketball, the Beatles — to name a few.

Before he left, he asked me to help him go through the stuff in his room. His bookshelf was crammed with many favorites he had hung onto since his days in elementary and middle school. Seeing the books, I wasn’t just reminded of what he had loved to read for the past eighteen years, but the way the stories had shaped the young man standing before me.

And as we pulled down the books, I realized I had wishes for my son as he left the protection, familiarity, and security of the home he had known his whole life.

I wish that he will stay close with his sisters and hold on to his curiosity and thirst for knowledge, like Jack and Annie in the Magic Tree House series, those beloved books that Sam devoured throughout second grade. Sam and his sisters used to act out the stories, going on adventures that took them from their bedrooms all the way downstairs to the family room, through the kitchen and back upstairs. (They did not have Smartphones, tablets, or any type of texting device at this time.) Stuck among the piles of books was the pad of paper where they started writing their own version — Monkeys on Monday. They were determined to finish it and send it off to Mary Pope Osborne. (They didn’t, although I’m sure Ms. Osborne would have loved it.)

I wish that Sam will cling to his imagination for a while longer, before the weight and seriousness of adulthood forces it away. Like Joe Stoshack in Dan Gutman’s baseball adventure books, there was a point when Sam believed a boy could time travel just by holding a baseball card in his hand.

I wish that he will be brave and determined, like Harry Potter, as he faces the many obstacles that will be sure to block his path. He won’t have a wand, just his intelligence and heart. I wish that he always finds humor in life’s trying situations, like Louis Sachar’s Marvin Redpost, and holds tight to his passions, always continuing to seek out what makes him happy, like the main character in one of our favorite picture books of all time, Shy Charles, by Rosemary Wells.

And I wish that he will fight for what he believes in, and fight for those who cannot, like Annemarie in Number the Stars by Lois Lowry, and many other heroes in these books he read, who triumphed over enemies real and imagined.

There were many more wishes on my mind, but the bookshelf was empty.

Now there was room for college textbooks, the framed graduation photo, the Bob Dylan guitar chord book. I asked Sam if he was sad to pass these childhood books along to our local library. He said no, not at all, because the stories were “in my brain.”

In his brain. Wow.

Maybe, just maybe, those wishes have a chance of coming true.

Michele Weber Hurwitz still has her worn copy of Eight Cousins by Louisa May Alcott, which she read over and over as a child. She is the author of Calli Be Gold (Wendy Lamb Books/Random House 2011). Visit her at www.micheleweberhurwitz.com.

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  1. Jen Swanson  •  Oct 10, 2012 @6:20 am

    Michele,

    Your post was very beautiful and resonated with me. I can relate. My son, too, left for college this fall. He is at Georgia Tech. I wish for him all that you wish for your son. It’s tough to see them go, but so gratifying to know that they are ready. Best of luck to your son!!

    Michele Weber Hurwitz Reply:

    @Jen Swanson, Thank you, Jen. And good luck to your son, too. There is definitely a bittersweet pride and happiness as they go off on their own.

  2. Ann Marie Meyers  •  Oct 10, 2012 @6:25 am

    Ow wow Jen – how beautiful and so touching! I hope all your wishes for him come true.

  3. Brenda Ferber  •  Oct 10, 2012 @10:18 am

    Michele, you brought tears to my eyes with this heartfelt post. I totally relate! My twins will be heading off to college next fall, and my third child just a year after them. They grew up with and loved all these books, too!

    Michele Weber Hurwitz Reply:

    @Brenda Ferber, Thanks so much, Brenda! Treasure these last years :)

  4. Julie Mata  •  Oct 10, 2012 @9:25 pm

    How true that books we love stay in our brains. I really enjoyed this post. It evokes the days when screens were not so prevalent, and books were a much loved source of entertainment. I can remember riding my bike home from the library with my basket piled high with books that I couldn’t wait to dig into.
    And I can also relate since my oldest daughter went off to college in September, and I have many wishes for her as well. Thanks!

    Michele Weber Hurwitz Reply:

    @Julie Mata, I also rode home from the library with my bike basket filled with books! Much good luck to your daughter. And thank you.

  5. Ali B.  •  Oct 10, 2012 @10:00 pm

    Does he know the University of Iowa fight song? If he knows that, he should be fine. My mom, a loyal Hawkeye, taught it to me when I was in elementary school. I’ve never forgotten it. I wish him well!

    Michele Weber Hurwitz Reply:

    @Ali B., Haha! He knows the fight song and he’s been to every home football game this year! Go Hawks! Thank you.

  6. Beth MacKinney  •  Oct 10, 2012 @10:02 pm

    It was hard for me to read your post, because my own son is 15, and although he towers over me already, he still gives me a good night hug and kiss every night. Hard to watch kids grow up!

    : )

    Michele Weber Hurwitz Reply:

    @Beth MacKinney, It is. So bittersweet. As much as I bemoan the constant texting, it’s made me feel like I’m in touch with him. Plus we Skype! My parents and I talked once a week (long distance!) when I was in college.

  7. Dianna Winget  •  Oct 11, 2012 @9:40 am

    My daughter just turned 15, but more than once we’ve had to clean off her bookshelves to make room for new. We’ve passed most of the books on to younger family members, but it’s still so hard to have to part with old favorites. Some I just couldn’t handle getting rid of, like A Mother for Chocko, Chrysamthamum (I know it’s mispelled!) Pat the Bunny, and Richard Scarry’s Best Story Book Ever. I simply moved these books over to MY shelf!

    Michele Weber Hurwitz Reply:

    @Dianna Winget, Absolutely! I’m hanging onto “Officer Buckle and Gloria” and “The Little House” forever!

  8. Tracy Abell  •  Oct 11, 2012 @11:31 am

    This is a beautiful post that resonated with me. My son left home last spring and it was hard going through his bookshelf. He didn’t take many childhood books but when I discovered he’d left behind his autographed copy of Maniac McGee, I delivered it to him!

    Thank you for sharing your wishes and know I’m sending some your son’s way, too.

    Michele Weber Hurwitz Reply:

    @Tracy Abell, Thank you! And my best wishes to your son too!